November 9, 2005

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"You must guard your imagination if you want to guard your heart. Don�t feed a lonely heart with cheesy romance novels or chick flicks and fantasize about the men or the relationships described. This can quickly become lust�lusting to be lusted after. Don�t allow yourself to imagine someone is interested in you when he is just being friendly. Don�t imagine that he had a tender look when he said hello to you, when he was really just giving you a polite greeting. In other words, do not develop wild crushes. If the man in question shows an interest elsewhere, you will be hurt, and depending on how much you indulged your imagination, you may be devastated. Be realistic about the men who show you attention. If you are too eager for a relationship, you can imagine he is godlier, funnier, sweeter, smarter, older, or taller than he really is. If you have to talk yourself into someone, you are not being realistic about this man. Don�t get desperate! Don�t allow yourself to get involved in an inappropriate relationship because you are lonely. Don�t look for a man as a ticket out. You may want to move out or move on, but that is not a good reason to get married. "
-Nancy Wilson (Douglas Wilson's wife)

scream AMEN with me! thanks, john and thank you, Mrs. Wilson!

Thought of the Day: #/0=Infinity.
Song of the Day: GOD-Meeting

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